From Swipe Right to "I DO"

There are a lot of factors to consider before entering married life. Literally saying ‘I do’ is just the first step, so we have to look at the bigger picture – marriage is a perfect mix of love and compatibility. In this episode, our go-to relationship expert Dr. Margie Holmes and I delve into the world of marriage, relationships, and more.

Factors to consider before getting married:

**1) Compatibility and Shared Values**

• Are you and your partner compatible in terms of core values, beliefs, and life goals?
• Do you share similar views on important topics such as religion, family, children, finances, and career aspirations?

**2) Communication and Conflict Resolution**

• How well do you and your partner communicate with each other? Healthy communication is vital for a successful marriage.
• How do you handle disagreements and conflicts? Are you able to resolve conflicts in a respectful and constructive manner?

**3) Family Dynamics**

• How do you and your partner get along with each other's families? Are there any potential family-related challenges that could arise?

**4) Long-Term Compatibility**

• Can you see yourself growing and evolving together with your partner over the long term?
• Are you prepared to commit to the ups and downs that come with marriage?

**5) Pre-Marital Counseling**

• Consider seeking pre-marital counseling or relationship education to explore these factors with the guidance of a professional.

Have open and honest conversations with your partner about these factors before making the decision to get married. Keep in mind that while no relationship is perfect, addressing these considerations can help you build a strong foundation for a healthy and fulfilling marriage.

“Your relationships are important - they are crucial in building a healthy and happy life.”

— Joyce Pring

How do you know if it's time to say "I do"?

**1) Strong Foundation of Friendship and Love**

You and your partner share a deep emotional connection and genuine friendship. You genuinely enjoy each other's company and support one another through various life experiences.

**2) Emotional Readiness**

You both feel emotionally mature and ready for the commitment of marriage. You've addressed any personal emotional issues that might impact your relationship.

**3) Individual Growth and Independence**

You and your partner encourage each other's personal growth and independence. You respect each other's individuality while nurturing your relationship.

**4) Feeling Complete**

You feel that your partner complements you and adds value to your life. You're content with the idea of spending your life with them.

**5) Long-Term Vision**

You can envision a happy and fulfilling future together. You're excited about building a life with your partner and facing challenges as a team.

Marriage is a significant commitment, and it's natural to have some level of uncertainty. However, if you find that the majority of these signs align with your relationship, it could be a positive indication that you're ready to take the step towards marriage. It's also valuable to discuss your feelings and thoughts with a trusted friend, family member, or professional counselor for additional insights.