Wedding Planning
Are you planning your own wedding and feeling overwhelmed? This can be stressful, but it doesn't have to be. Join me and Juancho as we answer some of your questions and share also our own wedding planning experiences.
Photo from Instagram: Joyce Pring
First step when planning a wedding
The first step when planning a wedding is typically to establish a budget. Setting a budget will help guide your decisions and determine the scale and scope of your wedding. It's important to sit down with your partner and any relevant family members to discuss how much you're willing to spend on various aspects of the wedding, such as the venue, catering, attire, decorations, and entertainment. Once you have a budget in place, you can begin to prioritize your spending and make informed decisions about other aspects of the wedding planning process.
Navigating family dynamics
1) Listen actively
Practice active listening when discussing wedding plans with family members. Show empathy and understanding towards their perspectives, even if you don't agree with them.
2) Compromise
Be willing to compromise and find common ground with family members, especially when it comes to contentious issues. Look for creative solutions that address everyone's concerns and priorities.
3) Delegate tasks
Delegate specific tasks and responsibilities to family members based on their strengths and interests. This can help empower them to contribute meaningfully to the wedding planning process while minimizing conflicts.
4) Focus on the big picture
Remind yourself and your family members of the bigger picture – celebrating your love and commitment to each other. Encourage everyone to keep sight of the ultimate goal of the wedding day amidst the stress of planning.
5) Take breaks
If tensions escalate or conflicts become overwhelming, don't be afraid to take a step back and take a break from wedding planning discussions. Give yourself and your family members time to cool off and regroup before revisiting the issue.
5 Tips to manage stress during planning
1) Get a wedding organizer
Consider hiring a wedding planner or organizer to help you manage the logistics and details of your wedding day. A professional planner can alleviate stress and ensure that everything runs smoothly, allowing you to relax and enjoy your special day.
2) Wear something comfortable
Choose attire and shoes that are comfortable and practical for your wedding day. Being comfortable will help you feel more at ease and able to enjoy the festivities without distractions.
3) Eat before the wedding
Prioritize eating a heavy meal before the wedding ceremony and reception to fuel your energy and prevent hunger pangs. It's easy to get caught up in the excitement of the day and forget to eat.
4) Assign people
Delegate specific tasks and responsibilities to trusted individuals to help manage the logistics on your wedding day. Assign roles such as coordinating vendors, managing the guest list, or overseeing the timeline to ensure that everything runs smoothly.
5) People will remember if the food is horrible
Invest time and effort into selecting a reputable caterer and designing a menu that will delight your guests. Remember that good food can leave a lasting impression on your guests, so prioritize quality and variety to ensure a memorable dining experience.
6) Get a dance instructor
Consider also taking dance lessons with your partner to prepare for your first dance as a married couple. A dance instructor can help you feel more confident and polished on the dance floor, making your first dance a memorable and enjoyable moment.
Last but not the least, think about the marriage more than the wedding.
“If you want to manage your stress, manage your expectations and be grateful for the things that go right.”
From Episode 192 of Adulting with Joyce Pring: “Wedding Planning with Juancho Trivino”