Trusting God Through Hard Times

What is the definition of a Proverbs 31 woman? How do we submit to our husbands despite being strong and empowered? On this episode, we are joined by Miriam Quiambao-Roberto as she share her life testimony about being infertile but being blessed by kids and how she strives to embody the characteristics of a Proverbs 31 woman.

What is the definition of a Proverbs 31 woman?

The Proverbs 31 woman is often described as a woman of noble character, with the passage in Proverbs 31:10-31 providing a detailed description of her qualities and virtues. She is portrayed as a wife and mother who exemplifies various characteristics. Some key attributes attributed to her in this passage include:

1) Trustworthiness

She is a woman who can be trusted by her husband, and he has full confidence in her.

2) Industry

She is hardworking and diligent, using her time and resources wisely.

3) Strength

She possesses physical and inner strength, facing challenges with courage and resilience.

4) Wisdom

She seeks wisdom and uses discernment in her decision-making, displaying sound judgment.

5) Compassion

She cares for the needs of others, showing kindness and generosity to the poor and needy.

6) Truthful

She conducts herself with honesty and integrity, and her words and actions reflect her character.

7) Creativity

She is resourceful and creative in her pursuits, using her skills and talents to benefit her family and others.

8) Financial Stewardship

She manages her household finances wisely and contributes to the well-being of her family.

9) Family Focused

She prioritizes her family's well-being and takes measures to ensure their care and happiness.

10) Fears the Lord

She is a woman who fears and reveres the Lord, seeking to honor Him in all that she does.

How do we submit to our husbands?

When it comes to the concept of wives submitting to their husbands, the Bible, specifically Ephesians 5:22-24, states the following: "Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife even as Christ is the head of the church, his body, and is himself its Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit in everything to their husbands."

The Bible teaches that husbands are called to love their wives sacrificially, just as Christ loved the church. In the same Ephesians 5 passage, it continues with instructions for husbands to love their wives as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her (Ephesians 5:25). The emphasis here is on the sacrificial love and servant leadership that husbands should exhibit.

In the context of being an alpha woman who is strong and empowered, it is important to understand that biblical submission does not imply weakness or inferiority. Submission is not about being controlled or oppressed but rather about mutual respect, love, and partnership in marriage. It is about willingly and respectfully coming under the leadership and care of one's husband, as the husband himself is called to sacrificially love and care for his wife.

The Proverbs 31 woman, who is often held as an ideal example for wives, is also a strong and empowered woman who exercises wisdom, strength, and creativity in various aspects of her life. Understanding the concept of submission in the context of these biblical teachings means that, while a woman may be strong and empowered, she can still choose to honor and support her husband's leadership role in the relationship. It is about finding a balance between both partners' strengths and working together as a team.