How to Handle Disrespectful People
Friendship is one of the most important parts of our lives. And the truth is, the people you surround yourself with can either lift you up or pull you down. In this episode, Juancho and I dive deep into what it really means to pick the right friends, how to deal with disrespect in your circle, and why boundaries are an essential part of healthy relationships.
1. Choose Friends Who Share Your Values
Not every friend is meant to stay forever. True friends aren’t just there for the fun, they’re the ones who align with your values, lift you up, and cheer you on as you grow.
2. Be Intentional with Who You Let In
You don’t need a huge circle. A few meaningful friendships are enough, as long as they’re built on trust, loyalty, and love. Focus on quality over quantity.
3. Set Boundaries Clearly
Boundaries are like invisible fences. People won’t know they exist unless you show them. Be upfront, gracious, and firm when communicating what’s okay and what’s not.
“Boundaries aren’t about pushing people away; they’re about teaching others how to love and respect you.”
4. Call Out Disrespect When Needed
Not all disrespect is intentional, but some patterns are toxic. Know when to clarify, when to extend grace, and when it’s time to walk away.
5. Don’t Let Others Define You
Disrespectful comments often reflect the other person’s insecurities, not your worth. True fulfillment comes when you stop living by other people’s opinions and start standing firm in your identity and values.
Healthy friendships require clarity, respect, and the courage to set boundaries. Surround yourself with people who push you to be the best version of yourself and don’t forget to be that kind of friend to others too.