Consistency and Chaos
Can we still start our lives over when it feels like it’s too late? On this episode, I am joined by my good friend - Kai Honasan in our catch-up conversation on rediscovering ourselves in our 20s and sharing the lessons we’ve learned with consistency amidst struggles in the different phases of life.
Photo from: Instagram (Kai Honasan)
What to do when you feel like it's too late to restart?
Feeling like it's too late to start your life again can be a common but distressing sentiment. However, we have to remember that it's never too late to make positive changes and start anew. Here are some steps to consider when you feel this way:
1) Acknowledge Your Feelings
It's okay to feel this way, but acknowledge also that these are emotions and do not let them paralyze you.
2) Focus on the Present
Instead of dwelling on the past or worrying about the future, concentrate on the present moment. This mindfulness can help you make positive changes in the "now."
3) Plan. Plan. Plan.
Create a clear plan outlining the steps you need to take to reach your goals. A plan can provide structure and direction for your efforts.
4) Continuous Improvement
Consider acquiring new skills or knowledge to help you in your journey. Continuous learning and self-improvement are vital at any stage of life.
5) Take Risks
Sometimes, fear of change or fear of failure can hold you back. Taking calculated risks can lead to personal growth and new opportunities.
Life is a journey, and it's never too late to make meaningful changes and create a more fulfilling future. Many people have successfully reinvented themselves and pursued their dreams later in life. Stay focused on your goals and take one step at a time, and over time, you can make progress toward a more satisfying and purposeful life.
“Life’s not gonna stop coming at you, you just have to deal with everything.”
Consistency and Chaos
"Consistency and chaos" is a phrase that contrasts two different states or qualities. Here's what it can mean in other ways:
1) Stability and Disarray
In one sense, "consistency and chaos" can refer to the balance between stability and disarray. "Consistency" represents order, predictability, and a regular, unchanging state, while "chaos" represents disorder, unpredictability, and a state of confusion. It's often used to describe situations or systems that have elements of both stability and unpredictability.
2) Routine and Spontaneity
In personal or lifestyle contexts, "consistency and chaos" can refer to the balance between having a routine or predictable life (consistency) and moments of spontaneity or unpredictability (chaos). Some people value consistency in their daily lives, while others thrive on spontaneity and new experiences.
3) Balance and Contrast
It can indicate that to be effective or successful, one often needs to find a balance between the stability and predictability of consistency and the dynamic, creative, and often unpredictable nature of chaos. This balance can apply to various areas, such as business, art, or problem-solving.
In a nutshell, "consistency and chaos" is a phrase that highlights the interplay between stable, orderly elements and unpredictable, disorderly elements.
“You need something that anchors you, an activity or a hobby.”
From Episode 167 of Adulting with Joyce Pring: “Consistency and Chaos ft. Kai Honasan”