How To Build Long-Lasting Friendships

Part 2 of my conversation with yesHEis guests! On this installment, we now talk about how we can be empathetic and actively listen to sustain friendships and build deeper connections.

Conversation starters for non-believers

1)
Ask about their beliefs

A great way to start a respectful conversation about faith is to ask your non-believer friend what they believe about God, spirituality, or the afterlife.

2) Talk about the role of faith in your life

Sharing your own authentic journey with faith can be a compelling starting point for a conversation. Talk about how your faith has impacted your life, giving tangible examples of how it has helped you in times of need.

3) Ask about their understanding of Jesus Christ

Even non-Christians have heard of Jesus Christ, so asking their opinion or understanding of who Jesus is can lead to an interesting conversation.

4) Share your testimony

Talking about the significant moments in your faith journey can be an emotional and meaningful sharing. Share your story with your friend with a focus on how Christ has impacted your life.

5) Ask if your friend has any prayer request

A simple question such as, "Is there anything specific you’d like me to pray for you?" can lead to meaningful conversations, opening the door for your friend to share their struggles.

How does being a good friend extend beyond our circles?

1) Influence on others

When we model positive qualities and treat our friends with love and respect, it can inspire them to do the same. They, in turn, may spread kindness and compassion to their own circles, creating a chain reaction of positive actions and attitudes.

2) Building a sense of community

Strong friendships built on trust and support create a sense of community. This sense of belonging and connectedness can lead to a more supportive and cohesive society where individuals look out for one another's well-being.

3) Encouraging positive social values

Acts of friendship can reinforce the values of empathy, kindness, and caring for others as essential components of a healthy society. By living out these values in our friendships, we contribute to a culture that prioritizes these qualities, improving the overall well-being of communities.

4) Generational impact

Being a good friend lays the foundation for healthy relationships and positive social interactions. As we model friendship to younger generations, they learn the value of empathy, compassion, and respect. These values can inspire them to continue the cycle of friendship and kindness, positively shaping the future for generations to come.

Whether we're Christian or non-Christian, let's remember that being a good friend transcends boundaries and faiths. It's about embodying love, understanding, and encouragement in ways that uplift and transform lives.